I Escaped the Homeschool Bubble and Started Taking Risks
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After growing up between Switzerland and the United States, Bradley Wyss had a homeschool experience that was anything but conventional. He moved between public school and homeschooling, eventually earning a Swiss education, starting college, and then returning to the U.S. where he had to complete high school all over again. But the biggest changes came after leaving the tightly connected Christian homeschool community he grew up in. Bradley shares what it was like to question the religious beliefs he had been raised with, deal with purity culture and the fear of breaking the rules, and eventually build a life based more on curiosity, independence, and taking chances. Today, he works in the wind industry, travels extensively, and embraces an adventurous approach to life.
What I especially loved about this conversation was Bradley's perspective on fear. He's faced plenty of uncertainty, from being medically discharged from the Marine Corps because of his degenerative vision condition to figuring out a career and navigating life outside of his childhood religion. Instead of waiting until he feels completely confident, Bradley has learned to take the leap and figure things out along the way.
In This Episode
- Growing up between Switzerland and the United States and moving between public school and homeschooling
- The role of ACE/PACES and the homeschool community in Bradley's childhood
- Why leaving a religious community can be just as difficult as questioning the beliefs themselves
- Breaking down the guilt and fear surrounding purity culture and religious rules
- How Bradley went from an unexpected Marine Corps setback to working in renewable energy
- Building a life around travel, adventure, hobbies, and taking chances
- Why fear doesn't necessarily have to disappear before you make a big change
- Finding community and meaningful relationships after leaving the religious environment you grew up in
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Chapters
00:00 Welcome Back To The Ex-Homeschoolers Club
00:38 Support The Show
01:27 Meet Bradley
02:43 Swiss To US Schooling
03:57 Back To Switzerland Shift
05:42 Divorce And US Return
08:01 ACE Program And ACHEV
12:32 Homeschool Community Life
16:58 Graduating High School A Second Time
17:33 Marine Corps Setback
18:33 Vision Loss Reality
21:15 Finding A Career In Wind
22:39 Goals Travel And Freedom
27:35 Taking Risks Pays Off
33:38 Questioning Faith Begins
39:20 Leaving Religion And Rules
43:44 Tithing and Credit
46:41 Gods Will and Free Will
48:11 Purity Culture Guilt
49:45 Leaving the Church
53:23 Telling Your Parents
57:20 What Do You Think Of Homeschooling Now?
01:01:18 Tough Talks Not Bubbles
01:06:01 Finding Zest for Life
01:12:25 Freedom Through Travel
01:15:31 Hobbies and Adventure Mindset
01:18:20 Small Joys and Farewell
