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Was I a Homeschool Success Story—or Just the Exception? | #39

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This conversation dives into the highs, lows, and hard truths of RB's journey through homeschooling, patriarchal systems, and his path to healing. We discuss his early education in Pennsylvania, the move to Kansas, and the gendered disparities in educational investment he witnessed as the oldest of five siblings. RB opens up about the unintended privileges he received, his culture shock entering college and the workforce, and how he later found healing through therapy, community, and authentic adult friendships. Topics like male friendship, trauma recovery, and starting a coworking space in Texas also make this an episode full of raw honesty and powerful insights.

Key Takeaways:

  • Homeschooling looked vastly different in Pennsylvania vs. Kansas, with the latter having virtually no oversight.

  • Patriarchal religious beliefs led to unequal educational opportunities for RB and his sisters.

  • Post-homeschool life brought intense culture shock, but also personal and professional growth.

  • RB found healing through therapy, adult friendship, and creating Bastrop Coworking in Texas.

  • Real success is about embracing curiosity, connection, and lifelong learning, not replicating rigid ideals.

Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview

01:18 Guest Introduction: RB's Homeschool Experience

02:31 Early Homeschooling in Pennsylvania

08:27 Transition to Homeschooling in Kansas

16:26 Challenges and Gender Disparities in Homeschooling

30:37 Post-Homeschool Life and Culture Shock

37:23 Reflecting on Religious Upbringing

38:51 College Life and Career Goals

43:50 Homeschooling and Socialization

46:02 Friendships and Community Building

51:17 Challenges and Growth in Adulthood

54:18 The Importance of Social Connections

01:07:17 Homeschooling Reflections and Advice

01:09:31 Final Thoughts and Contact Information

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Was I a Homeschool Success Story—or Just the Exception? | #39

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